Seth and Pete look at co-dependency in relationships today with their guest Mary Joye, licensed mental health counselor and Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator. What happens when support in a marriage turns unhealthy? How can co-dependent behavior impact the marriage process? And the divorce process? And why don’t we start calling it pathological altruism, which is what it is?

Seth and Pete are joined this week by divorce coach Cherie Morris to talk about de-escalating conflict. What part of the divorce process is most ripe for conflict? How do you learn to let go of control and accept things as they are? And how do you figure out if your’e the one causing high conflict?

We say it in pretty much every episode – “Check your local jurisdiction.” But what does that really mean? Why are there such diverse differences from state to state? Family law specialist Courtney Shepard joins us from so we can dig into why laws are so different from jurisdiction to jurisdiction and how you can navigate them in your own divorce.

You always hear about the notorious ‘opposing counsel,’ but are they like you’ve seen in the movies and TV? Michael Lundy has been on the opposite side of the table from Seth, so we invited him on this episode to help us all better understand what to expect from the other side and why you don’t want to go to trial.

Vicki Vollweiler helps parents and students finance their college experience. If you’re in the process of a divorce, Vicki has some things for you to think about to make sure you don’t make it harder for your kiddo to get the money they need to get educated!

Both Pete and Seth lost a parent in the last year. This week, they address the experience of grief and loss and how that experience impacts your day-to-day reality in some unpredictable ways.

Author Elizabeth Ann Atkins helps us keep the focus on a successful divorce outcome while everything else in the divorce process gets ugly!

How do you find peace in the process? This week’s guest is Twyla M. Marks, host of “Divorce Talk with Twyla” and survivor of her own toxic divorce, here to share how forgiveness forges new paths.

Whatever your position on Valentine's Day as a holiday, there's no denying the cultural charge of romantic expectation around us. What do you do when you run into your first post-divorce Valentine's Day? Stories from listeners who've done it this week on the show.

Happy New Year! In our season break we brought the team together to talk about divorce in the movies. From hyper-stylized to hyper-real, how well do filmmakers capture divorce? Producer Andy Nelson joins Pete and Seth as we build our divorce movie watchlist.

We’re on a short break as we celebrate the holidays with our families and gear up for season five coming in 2022. While we’re away, we thought it might be nice to take another trip down memory lane and share some of our favorite episodes from our early seasons of the Toaster. This week, we’re talking about your space.

Dee Wallace is an actor and a healer and she’s spent the last 20 years as an advocate and teacher in the art of self-creation. Today, we talk about healing yourself and your kids after living through the trauma of divorce.

This week on the show we’re talking all about brand YOU with Becca Bycott, writer behind Bride In Reverse, a personal branding and lifestyle blog that celebrates how to reclaim autonomy after this big life change.

What happens to your life after divorce? This week we talk to Author Chi — Chidima Anusieum — about making the jump from divorce to diamonds.

Financial advisor Simon Brady shares how he helps the “suddenly single” through the uncertainly and financial education in the divorce process.

JT Tapias is a trainer, coach, and health counselor and his practice is all about teaching others how to live a fit and healthy life that is sustainable. Your health is more than a casual pastime and the stress of divorce can have an even more drastic impact on your health than you might expect.

Dr. Joe Kort is a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health and a board certified clinical sexologist. He’s in the Toaster to help us navigate the uncertain waters of your post-divorce sex life.

How does your divorce attorney work your case? Today on the show, let’s dive into the day-to-day buckle shuffle of the firm with Seth Nelson.

Erika Anne Englund is chief of strategy at SupportPay and comes to the Toaster to talk about language, negotiation, and what happens to your brain on conflict as we navigate the upcoming holiday season.